Friend: Get the Scissors

So he tells you he's into you.
You are clearly into him.
He says he doesnt want a relationship.
Your not even sure thats what you want.
He's not even sleeping with you.
Because 'hes a gentleman'?
Is he tying up loose ends? Or unravelling old ones?

Whatever it is:ITS BOLLOCKS hes just messing you around.

The carefree one, the party girl, the one that thought she would never fall in love, has fallen. She is trapped in a bubble of false hope and anticipation. Waiting. Waiting for him to REALISE he loves her too. Ive been there....i waited... got hurt...waited some more...got hurt a bit more....and then woke up to realisation that relationships like this NEVER work. The only reason we are waiting and hoping is because we want to prove to ourselves that we can make him love us, but the truth is untill he does we will be miserable. Absolute misery, that even the funniest of things will only scracth the surface or our emotions. We will think about him every minute of every day, and the pain of wanting him and not having him will hurt from the deepest point in our stomachs, it will be physical pain and HE IS NOT WORTH IT.

'HOW DO I STOP FEELING LIKE THIS?'

My dearest friend, you get the scissors out and you burst the bubble you are in. Cut him out of your life. You were happy before he was in it and will be happier as soon as he is out of it.

Love your best friend Dougy.xxx